Sapele’s Female Druggies and their Babies
Imagine a baby just a few days or old. He or she has been crying for food endlessly, but nothing is on offer. There is no money for baby food, so the mother has to feed the child with her breast’s milk. However, the delay that kept the baby hungry was because she was taking time to inject, swallow, or smoke drugs. The baby’s nourishment from the mother’s breast may hold with varying concentrations of drugs. That is the baby’s meal and survival.
We are not even considering how well-fed the mother is, the child’s immunity, health and treatment if it falls ill, the environment the mother and child lives, hopes of a better life and so forth.One may further ask if the child is the only one, or the second or third, or if another one is on the way? Look at the photo above, and you can see a mother simultaneously smoking marijuana and feeding her baby. It is happening in Sapele, Delta State like in many other towns and cities in Nigeria, particularly the slum areas, but the usual denial by many Nigeria is that we took the photo in South Africa, Gabon or Chad. Drugs are not just destroying a generation of youths; it is already destroying their babies.
The youth drug problem now clear in Sapele and elsewhere in Nigeria is no longer hidden to everyday people. But it still hides from Nigerian politicians, it might seem. Or they just ignore it.
Drugs are inexpensive and easy to get in Nigeria, but we should not conflate inexpensive with free. Even if it is N100 as a dosage, one has to earn money to buy it. Such is where the female vulnerability factor arises undaunted. Drug addiction starts with a trial or experimentation, which is simple enough; the problem begins when habituation sets in. Pimps around the world have long known to get women addicted easily to make them compliant to work in the sex trade. However, according to Ejorheya Brighademo based in Sapele and works in the tourism industry, female youth addiction is not really about prostitution. The drug addiction is about “escape from extreme socio-economic hardship”, says Brighademo. There was a time when “goscolene” (the IUPAC name for ogogoro) did the job; now it is drugs.
Before we get self-righteous and blame the girls for doing these drugs and having babies, what are their circumstances and motivations in life? Many are secondary or even primary school drop-outs mainly because their parents or relatives could not afford their school fees. Those with secondary education have no support to go further. Sometimes there is no money even to learn a trade like sewing, hairdressing, nail techniques, make-up, baking, event decorations or the like. Some cannot also get a N5,000 loan or grant to sell food or water, in-house or elsewhere. Because of their poverty, they do not dress well enough to attract the attention of men with even modest cash.
Prostitution, amazingly, does not work for them. Why would it? They cannot afford the hairstyles, cosmetics, clothes and shoes that would make them eligible prostitutes. How much hope is this for female youth and we are considering several millions of them in Nigeria? Though a good deal of may not have an addiction yet, we hope they never do. “Escape, by any means necessary” would look irresistible to human beings in those circumstances.
Poverty has made many fathers of these youths’ babies abandon them and their mothers, or sometimes the grandparents they live. What seems just as disturbing is that while some of these female youths are having babies, their mothers also have babies and living often in acutely overcrowded single room accommodation or similar. The relevant statistics about these births and their living circumstances need collecting to give an exact picture. Informal begging to eat is a daily or hourly chore. “Bros, find me small thing/change now” or “Sister, na die I dey, anything for me at all?” or shed tears that solicit questions that enable them to respond with begging. Hunger does eventually strip people of their dignity.
After taking the drugs and the young females fall prey to reckless sexual and moral misbehaviour, most drug addicts do. The young men are no different. Sex for these young females becomes a thing of the moment, faceless encounters; who with, how good or where does not matter? What does matter is that pregnancies result from such behaviour frequently? There is no money for abortions. No identity is because of the fathers. No reputation the family of an identifiable male father his family has will tolerate.
The young female is on her own. Even if parents and grandparents allow some of these females to live with them, verbal abuse can be torture itself. The fortunate few of these females find themselves years later as citizens in Diaspora, with their shops in Lagos, with a higher education qualification, a career and a husband. But these are the 1 to 4% fortunate ones. The rest, the majority, have nowhere to go and nothing to do, no remedies, no hope—drugs, the temptation of awaits many of them.
Nevertheless, the drug addiction problem in Nigeria, especially as it plagues youths and females, is not in the consciousness of the Government of Nigeria. Expecting it to be their political priority is like being addicted to drugs oneself.
The solution is the establishment of multi-functional community self-help centres in Sapele to address and clean up the youth drug problem as well as manage the welfare of the babies in question in the town. Other towns or parts of cities in Nigeria should think and act along the same lines. If the government cannot do its job, we the people should do it for them. And we can. It will be an uphill task, but again, it can be done.
To be continued…